Popular Christian author, podcaster, and former HGTV star Jen Hatmaker has stunned fans with revelations about her ex-husband’s secret affair in her new memoir Awake. The news has reignited national discussions on marriage, infidelity, faith, and healing.
How Jen Hatmaker Discovered Her Husband’s Affair
Jen Hatmaker, best known for her HGTV series My Big Family Renovation and bestselling Christian lifestyle books, has revealed the devastating night in July 2020 when she uncovered her then-husband Brandon Hatmaker’s infidelity.
According to Hatmaker, she awoke around 2:30 a.m. to overhear Brandon whispering on the phone to another woman, saying the unforgettable words:
“I just can’t quit you.”
Shocked, she searched his computer and found what she describes as a “trail of betrayal,” including proof of a long-term affair, expensive gifts, and financial misuse.
The Collapse of a Marriage
Jen and Brandon had been married since 1993, co-founded Austin New Church, and raised five children together. From the outside, they were seen as the picture of faith, family, and ministry success.
Behind the scenes, however, Jen reveals that their marriage had been sexless for nearly two years, and that counseling in 2020 was a last attempt to rebuild their bond. The night she uncovered the affair was the last time Brandon ever stayed in their shared home.
By September 2020, Jen publicly announced their divorce, calling it “completely unexpected” at the time.
Brandon Hatmaker’s Response
Brandon has since admitted to the affair, calling it “the lowest moment of my life.” In a recent Substack post, he acknowledged the pain he caused his family and community but insisted that:
- He had already been mourning the marriage before the public fallout.
- His current wife, Tina, was not involved in the affair.
- He has worked to make amends and heal privately.
Still, many of Jen’s fans across Texas and the U.S. have rallied around her, praising her honesty and resilience in sharing her story.
From Pain to Healing: Jen Hatmaker Today
Now, five years later, Jen is in a relationship with author Tyler Merritt, and she continues to inspire audiences with her podcast, speaking events, and social media presence.
Her memoir Awake is not just about betrayal, but also about:
- Healing after divorce
- Rebuilding identity beyond marriage and church roles
- Navigating faith and authenticity in the public eye
The book is already trending in Austin, Dallas, Los Angeles, and New York, with strong pre-orders nationwide.
Why This Story Matters
Jen Hatmaker’s candid revelations have struck a chord with readers across America who have faced cheating, divorce, and religious disillusionment. By sharing her truth, she has opened up conversations about:
- The hidden struggles behind picture-perfect marriages.
- The role of faith communities in supporting women through betrayal.
- The importance of honesty, self-worth, and moving forward.
Final Word
As the America’s Got Talent 2025 finale buzzes online, another headline capturing attention is Jen Hatmaker’s brave memoir. Her story of heartbreak, betrayal, and resilience is shaping up to be one of the most talked-about relationship scandals of 2025, not just in Texas but across the globe.
👉 Awake by Jen Hatmaker is available now wherever books are sold.
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